YMCA Sleep Easy Challenge 2013

One of the most basic human rights is to have somewhere safe and stable to live, yet homelessness continues to be one of the worst social problems in Britain today.

On a personal level, I’ve only had to sleep rough (not by choice) on one occasion. Back in 2002, I was working at a summer camp in New York State. During a night out in Lake George, and on impulse, myself and two colleagues decided to skip our curfew and stay out and party. We assumed we would be able to rent a motel room for the night, but unfortunately we were mistaken. We walked to every hotel and motel we were aware of in the whole town, but nowhere could we find a bed for the night. We got so desperate that, in tears, I begged one hotel manager to let us pay him to sleep on his office floor. I think he almost gave in, but unfortunately said he couldn’t let us stay at his establishment. With no other choice, we slept on the side of the road. Unfortunately, we made a rookie mistake. We chose to wait out the night on a road running alongside a park. It was only when the sun came up the next morning that we realised the whole area was covered in dew and we were soaked. I was lucky, though. I had enough money in my pocket to go and buy some breakfast whilst we waited for our bus, and once we returned to camp I was able to have a hot shower and sleep in a warm bed.

My experience in America is what inspired me to take part in the Cardiff YMCA Sleep Easy Challenge 2013 on Friday night. Over 100 of us slept rough in a city centre car park to raise awareness of homelessness in Wales and to raise much needed money to fund an emergency room at the YMCA hostel.

I was so determined to take part in the Sleep Easy Challenge this year that I would have gone along on my own, but I’m very pleased to say that my good friend Geri volunteered to come with me. We arrived just after 8pm, and joined in the scramble for cardboard to make our beds. This is only the second year that the event has taken place in Cardiff, and the organisers weren’t expecting so many people to turn up. Two of the car park staff were up and down in the lift for over an hour, trying to bring up as much cardboard as possible with one bin between them.

There was a really great atmosphere in the car park, a sense of community as everyone came together to support each other through the night. At around 10pm, the good old Welsh weather demonstrated what it is known for as the wind started to pick up and howled through the car park. Geri and I tried to make our area as comfortable as we could.

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Thirty minutes after this photo was taken, the rain started to pour. It came in horizontally through the wire mesh that you can see behind me, and dripped from the ceiling. Our sleeping bags got wet, and the cardboard that we’d put up behind us in an attempt to protect us from the weather turned into a soggy pile of pulp. I found the driest spot I could, buried myself in my sleeping bag and willed myself to fall asleep. Surprisingly, I did manage to sleep for a few hours. Again, though, I’m one of the lucky ones. At 5am I was able to drive home, put my damp sleeping bag in the washing machine, have a hot shower and get into my warm bed. I can’t imagine having to sleep in that sleeping bag in a wet car park the next night, and the next night, and the next night…

I’m proud to say that I raised £145 for YMCA. I also had the added bonus of sharing a great experience with a bunch of fantastic people. The hope is that the Sleep Easy Challenge will get bigger and bigger every year. How great would it be if they could one day fill the whole car park with fundraisers?

Sleep Easy Challenge 2013

It’s very apt that this week’s photo challenge this is home. I’ve been very lucky in my life. Wherever I have been in the world, I have always had a safe, warm place to go home to at the end of the day, even if that has sometimes just been a friend’s sofa. There has only been one night in my life that I have had to sleep out on the streets through no choice of my own. When I was working in Brant Lake, New York for the summer, two friends and I decided to skip curfew and stay out in Lake George for a few extra drinks. We thought we would be able to rent a hotel room for the night where we could crash until we were able to catch the bus back to our camp the next morning. Unfortunately, there were no rooms available in the whole town. We walked EVERYWHERE asking for a room, at one point I even begged a hotel manager to let us sleep on his office floor. But alas, there was nothing anyone could do to help us. As the town shut down for the night, we were left stranded out on the street with nothing but our clothes, which were definitely not suitable for nighttime temperatures. We decided the local park would be the best place to try and rest our heads for the night, but that turned out to be a rookie mistake. As soon as the sun started to rise we realised that the whole park was covered in dew, which had soaked through all our clothes and made us feel even colder. By 5.45am we were waiting outside the doors of the pancake restaurant for it to open. My one night on the streets was horrible, I never want to have to go through anything like it again, and I don’t know how some people do it night after night.

My experience in Lake George is one of the reasons that I have decided to take part in the YMCA Sleep Easy Challenge 2013. Myself and over 100 other people are going to sleep out under the stars in Cardiff for one night to raise awareness of homelessness in the city, and to raise funds for the charity. Last year was the first event of it’s kind held in Cardiff, 49 people took part and raised an average of £100 each. This year, they have space for 150 people. If we can raise the same as they did last year, the YMCA will be able to keep an emergency room open in one of their hostels for another year. We have some terrible weather here in the UK, particularly during the cold winters, and the emergency rooms provide vulnerable people with shelter for the night. For every night we have adverse weather, that room can potentially save a life.

Think of me on Friday 8th March, and send me warm thoughts! I promise I’ll let you know how the event goes as soon as the feeling has returned to my hands and I can type! If you would like to sponsor me, please click here to be redirected to my sponsorship page.